»androgynous« is the adjective most often related to Brett Anderson, the singer of »Suede«. In my opinion, he's quite manly, and I looove his music (especially the older albums). What I would associate with his name is »abusive drug use«.
Real androgyny did I only experience once. There is a girl studying with me. The first times I just saw here I couldn't figure out if she was male or female. She has her hair cut short and is always wearing skater's clothes. And I know that a lot of people have trouble saying if she really is a girl.
But I talked to her, and even said, that most people thought she were a guy. She only smiled and answered that she was intending that....